For this list the word gay refers to everyone in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community.

• Educate yourself about gay issues. Visit our resource link for more information.

• Use the word spouse or partner instead of wife or husband.

• Stop by your gay neighbors house and borrow a ladder or cup of sugar.

• Treat LGBT families as you would anyone else—ask the regular questions... how did you two meet, etc?

• Tell gay families you are supportive of them. Don't know the right words?? Just try... it opens up a great conversation.

• Ask if organizations you support include non-discrimination policies in their mission statements.

• If you see a LGBT related story in the news ask your neighbors about it.

• Support gay-owned and gay-friendly businesses.

• Let your friends, family and co-workers know that you find gay jokes offensive.

• Include your gay relatives and their partners in your family functions.

• Ask your employer if they have an LGBT employee affinity group.

• Let your family know that you support equality for LGBT people.

• Talk to your children about the day-to-day messages they receive about gay families on TV.

• Invite your gay neighbors to a backyard barbeque.

• Go see a film at the local LGBT film festival

• Let your children spend time with classmates from gay families by inviting their kids over to play.

• Encourage your company to adopt domestic partner benefits for employees.

• Identify yourself as a straight ally to the gay community.

• Speak to organizations you are involved with about LGBT equality.

• Support gay rights organizations with your time and money.

• Locally support these efforts by getting involved with the Cream City Foundation

• Donate to support these efforts.

• Learn more about these topics at: GLAAD

• PFLAG – Straight for Equality Campaign

• Visit the Shall Not Be Recognized Photography Show